Magical Cow Pr0n!
Point the First: all this talk about pornogroppression! If I could wave my magic feminist wand at the subject and boil away patriarchy, I think we’d be left with a sticky residue described by Brian Ulrich:
I don’t believe healthy sexuality can exist without an interest in the whole person, which does not and cannot exist in internet porn pictures or with paid performers in a strip club.
I think that’s the nut of it: you believe either that sex can stand on its own, or that it falls down without the appropriate supporting framework of emotional and/or spiritual attachments. Eliminate all the unsavory context you want, porn remains a vision of sex standing (or falling down) on its own.
And that’s all the insight I’ve got. Lynn has been writing a series of meditations on the nature of human sexuality at Noli Irritare Leones; there’s too many (and I’m too lazy) to link to them all individually, just go and scroll down if you’re into that sort of thing.