Staring Out the Window Again
There are more pictures in the photoblog, and there's a new loop on gabbro radio, all about fruit and right wing politicians.
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I have this bang on my knee, and two days ago it was a bruise. A nice bruisey bruise, with angry pink on the edges that gradually faded towards sallow yellow with tinges of purple in the center. I can't remember where it came from, but since I noticed it I've been watching with pleasant anticipation for the moment of crowning, splotchy blue glory all significant bruises enjoy. But instead, when I woke up this morning, it had migrated to the top of my skin and become an ugly, parasitic, scabby scrape. Boo, hiss.
Unrelatedly, I've been thinking about serendipity today, and how I tend to rely on it for decisions of all sizes and impacts. I am, for the most part, very adept at wanting what I can find instead of what I can't have. To put it another way, I have cheap tastes. My therapist thinks this is because I grew up without much excess money and got used to buying toys from garage sales, the implication being that I never learned to properly define what I want.
Economists have studied how shoppers behave when they're faced with a paralyzing array of strawberry jellies at the supermarket. Such dizzying choices are a peculiarly modern phenomenon - jam or jelly? strawberry or strawberry-kiwi? economy size or novelty jar? do I really give a fuck? - and they make people inefficient.
The guy across the hall is on the phone with his girlfriend. He just called her "honey" in this strangely oozing tone; threw me totally off track. I've never dated anyone who called me "honey" with any seriousness - not in conversation anyway; written forms do accomodate a certain amount of extravagance - and it's probably just as well, because most endearments completely wig me out.
Ahem. I believe I was muttering something about combinatorics and explosions and technology. Yes. I've also been sidetracked by an aesthetic issue, the glorification of killer robots and things you can do with jagged-edged scrap metal - a celebration of the post-apocalyptic, as it were. I haven't documented any of this, of course - facts are meant to be free, not enslaved by silly theories - but intuitively it seems that attitudes towards urban decay and nuclear winter have been moving from honest fear to campy appreciation to genuine appreciation of an idealized post-modern savage. Why? Because we're all sick and tired of choosing between 87 kinds of strawberry jelly, and we'd rather define ourselves in relation to some set of obvious, external, unalterable limits than deal with near-infinite possibilities and associated existential angst. Or at least, that's how my world works.
My dorm has coed multi-stall bathrooms, and over the course of the year, everyone gets pretty well used to barging around with only a minimal regard for privacy. So I'll be sitting there trying to poop, or drawing graffiti, or whatever, when some guy comes in a couple stalls down to pee. This is not a big deal.
But no matter how cavalierly the guy walked in, if I get up and flush before he leaves, he always always always waits for me to wash my hands and leave the bathroom before cracking open his stall door. Because God forbid you actually see who you were peeing with, even if you already know who they are.
It's always the guys who do this, too; maybe it's an extension of that gender-skewed public restroom code that they like to make cheap jokes with on sitcoms.
My campus is peach, always. The buildings are adobe peach, the lights at night cluster around a sodium vapor peach that's seedy and depressing without being dehumanizing or sexy. Even the sky is filthy smog peach if it hasn't rained in a while. So when they install a bright blue emergency beacon at the beginning of my walks, I can't help but stare at it, peripheral vision slowly fading, squinty blue lines springing outward bringing the dust on my glasses to the dust in the air, the treetops, the frisbee players, campus security.
It's a cosmic connection that can only be destroyed by gummi worms.
Yami, I ask, what is the world coming to when a mall can be considered, ahem, venerable?I wrote half a response to this in the comment form, and then deleted it because I was thinking too much and wanted a full entry. The gist of it is this: I think giant chain stores, and the malls they occupy, are inevitable in a culture that encourages lots of gallivanting around and resettling halfway across the country. I'm not prepared to condemn this kind of mobility, so I've been cultivating a sort of curmudgeonly affection for malls.